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A Love that Transcends

* below is an excerpt from my friend's blog. I cried a lot while reading this and I want to share to you a story of love. To follow Katrina and Sam's unconventional love story click HERE.

Today, I mourn the death of my first love. He said, I was God sent to him to make it easier for him to fight his battle and to surrender unto His will. We could have built a family together. He left me here on Earth, wondering what to do next. But I remembered, he promised to wait for me. Like Abu said, life is too short no matter how long we live; we’ll see each other soon. Love is not measured how frequent you see each other in person, not by how many kisses and hugs you exchange, not how compatible you are in bed but how you inspire each other to become a better person. Love is despite and in spite of all things. Love is what remains when you have exhausted all the excuses/ reasons not to be together and still choose to be in that same position that you are with him/her.

Too many promises, sweet words and declaration of love were exchanged. I told him to write a book about his life to inspire people. He told me that to inspire people; you have to start one at a time. It is not an overnight agenda. He indeed started with me. And I am sharing you this because I wanted to inspire the next person who will find his story moving.

IN MEMORY OF MY SAM MCDEER (1980-2009).
WHO WAS A PRODIGAL SON, WHO CAME BACK HOME TO HIS FATHER’S EMBRACE.

Much Love,
Katrina Ann

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Love

There’s no perfect formula for love…

It just happens. Who are we to say what love is and what love is not?

People have different views/expressions/takes about love… Love can happen in a blink of an eye or in light years… time is not a determinant for love… but time allows love to grow (or in sad cases diminish) – so let us hope for the first one.

Love will not always be about sunshine… it also needs rainy weathers and brave raging storms for it to grow.

There’s a note though… Be who you are when it comes to love… because being true to yourself is the only time wherein you can truly experience it.

There’s no perfect formula for love…

And if ever people will come out with one… then that’s the death of love itself…

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A Reply to that One Great Love

(check out my friend Katrina P.’s blog to know the context of this entry…)

I, too, is on a quest… a quest to find my one great love. I guess everyone wants a fairy tale story of happily ever afters… of forevers.

But the sad reality is that some of us would never find it. We get lost in the woods.

Some found it and let it go, thinking it wasn’t the one and moved on to the next castle to find their love.

Some found it but the other thought otherwise. Like Prince Charming losing Fiona to Shrek.

Some get jaded and fear cripples in, leaving love behind.

And for the blessed, “eureka!” and lived a life they’ve always dreamed of.

As for me, if you want to know that One Great Love, the answer is already there. Read your Bible. Yep, you can say there she goes again with her yadah yadah yadah.

Now, I may have put your romantic ideas about love down the drain but I’m not sorry for that. You can actually stop reading from here and go back to your comfy cushioned love thoughts.

But if you wanna read… then thank you.

True to it, the Bible give us our One Great Love… Jesus.

He loves like no other. I would always see it as a crazy love because He faithfully loves me even in my most unfaithful times. Just the thought of it gives me a “high”. Though I can be a bit rebellious at times and say “heck! I want something more than what you can give, then I would do just that. Have it. But reality kicks in and I would realzie that it was not what I was looking for.

I once thought that I have found that great love of mine only to be disillusioned. Jesus was there, waiting for me, as I slowly went back to him… head down, tears in my eyes and a broken heart. I felt the most soothing comfort in His presence and slowly I started to pick each and every piece of me and handed it to him saying “Lord, I entrust these broken pieces of me to you. I hope mighty bond can still fix it.” Hay! Amazing because with Him, no mighty bond is needed!!!

Best of all, He is not selfish because I know in my heart that He has someone in mind for me. My Prince that would really sweep me off my feet (I’m crossing my fingers now). I can be very impatient at times and always nagged Him where that Prince is because I want Him NOW. And sometimes I feel like He’s smiling as I winced with my lonely thoughts and my love fantasies.

A friend once asked me if who will I choose: the one who loves me or the one I love? I said with no hesitation, the one I love. It gives me happiness to love someone and give it all. Pains will come I know, but there’s Jesus who doesn’t need a mighty bond to heal me and who continuously supply me with crazy love.

Some of you may have a hard time relating to this entry but the crazy me who once thought that life is just that made a choice to enter into His glory. I packed my bags and personally went on and took the road to Him and this is what I found. My One Great Love.

Disclaimer: To my future Prince (whoever you might be), I’m not saying that I just love you so so. You’re my great love too. Just promise me we’ll gonna go sky diving, bungee jumping, scuba, climb the trail to Machu Picchu, have a romantic dinner at a gondola, watch tons of movies together, food tripping, watch all the sunsets and sunrises, have our cute babies, … am I asking too much? Oooppss sorry. Last, promise me we’ll gonna watch awesome fireworks together, best conversations, a love to last a lifetime… now I should really shut up. Period. No erase.

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